Comments on: Demonstration of Lower Value – DLV http://www.howtoseduction.com/building-attraction/demonstration-of-lower-value-dlv/ Mon, 27 Dec 2010 06:42:31 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.2.1 By: lisa http://www.howtoseduction.com/building-attraction/demonstration-of-lower-value-dlv/comment-page-1/#comment-500 lisa Thu, 09 Dec 2010 14:45:06 +0000 http://www.howtoseduction.com/?p=84#comment-500 Hello, Mike, I see that nobody answered your question.... neither do I, but i do recognise myself in that too nice 'girl' in my case. I think that too nice is negative dlv, because people pleasers like that, seem to be submissive. And attractiveness is explained as being successfull. Submissivness is imo: self depreciating,trying to impress people, perform too many favors, not standing up for themselves, being ignorant (what people take you for, they will always try to fool you), caring about what others think (people tend to think that you like to please them because you're afraid of rejection), poor social awareness.... Hope this helps you to understand a little bit. As i said already, i have the same issue but i'm working on it. Lisa Hello,

Mike,

I see that nobody answered your question…. neither do I, but i do recognise myself in that too nice ‘girl’ in my case.

I think that too nice is negative dlv, because people pleasers like that, seem to be submissive.
And attractiveness is explained as being successfull.

Submissivness is imo:

self depreciating,trying to impress people, perform too many favors, not standing up for themselves, being ignorant (what people take you for, they will always try to fool you), caring about what others think (people tend to think that you like to please them because you’re afraid of rejection), poor social awareness….

Hope this helps you to understand a little bit.

As i said already, i have the same issue but i’m working on it.

Lisa

]]> By: Mike http://www.howtoseduction.com/building-attraction/demonstration-of-lower-value-dlv/comment-page-1/#comment-480 Mike Thu, 07 Oct 2010 06:52:43 +0000 http://www.howtoseduction.com/?p=84#comment-480 I wish you would expand or just offer some advice on one specific DLV topic. my biggest DLV is "being the nice guy" I have a lot of friends(girls), that always tell me "you are such a good guy, you will find that someone (SOMEDAY), and they will really appreciate who you are" I don't actually think I do anything that builds that reputation, other than common chivalry (opening doors, escorting them to their cars, etc) Most of my good qualities are listed in other articles as positives, especially since I AM rich and famous (kidding) What causes a woman to see "nice guy"? How nice is "too nice"? How do you counter "too nice"? I wish you would expand or just offer some advice on one specific DLV topic.
my biggest DLV is “being the nice guy”

I have a lot of friends(girls), that always tell me “you are such a good guy, you will find that someone (SOMEDAY), and they will really appreciate who you are”

I don’t actually think I do anything that builds that reputation, other than common chivalry (opening doors, escorting them to their cars, etc)
Most of my good qualities are listed in other articles as positives, especially since I AM rich and famous (kidding)

What causes a woman to see “nice guy”?
How nice is “too nice”?
How do you counter “too nice”?

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