You can imagine a typical scenario where guys, huddled around a table, are discussing what attracts women. They’ll usually point out that power, money and looks are the key factors in attracting females. Although those factors might help, they certainly aren’t the only things and definitely not the most powerful ones. We’ll explore how women work and what really triggers attraction.

I believe there’s a rather large misconception about how to dress to attract women. On the one hand, you have a group of people that what you wear really doesn’t matter and it’s not about your appearance. Contrastingly, there’s another crowd that says you need to dress up in a very clean and classy fashion to attract women. So who’s right? Are you supposed to dress up or simply not care?

I’d argue that if you don’t know how to be more confident with woman than the average guy, then it’s likely you won’t get further than the average guy when you’re trying to approach her. Women immediately feel it when you have confidence, even if they don’t show it. Everyone will feel it, even the guys that are nearby. Confidence is something that glows around you when you have it, and something that’s very obvious when you don’t. So if you’re searching for quick ways to build confidence with women, then here are some rock solid tips.

Assuming you’d like to know how to pick up girls in any situation, the fastest way to learn is to watch other guys do it first. Learning from other men is probably the best way to go about it if you’ve never done it before. The odd thing is that if you ask a guy who’s naturally good at picking up girls to describe what he does, he probably won’t have a clue. That brings me to my biggest tip when picking up women: Don’t think about it and certainly don’t think about the possible outcome.

The most important lesson you can learn when learning how to approach girls is to realize that one day, you’re going to grow old. While you’re reflecting on your life, you’ll remember all those missed opportunities that you should have taken. Every single time you failed to approach a girl, all those missed approaches will haunt you. So make the most of your time on earth while you’re still young and enjoy it.

Take a moment to think about it. When you’re approaching women, what’s the worst thing that a girl can possibly say to you if you ask her on a date? The worse she can say is “no” right? Well you’re wrong! The worse she can say is that she wouldn’t go out with you if were the last man on Earth, that you’re ugly and disgusting and you should never talk to her again.

In today’s world, should you really be complimenting women? The difference between women and men is that women are used to compliments and men are not. You shouldn’t be throwing out compliments, especially when it’s a compliment that you don’t really mean. For instance, if you go up to a woman and say “Hey, I think you’re very attractive and have gorgeous eyes”, she’ll know that you aren’t being sincere. Instead, if you’re going to compliment women, you should use a spontaneous, sincere and original compliment. For example, noticing how her jewelry is captivating.

I’m sure you’ve heard guys say that looks don’t matter, but they really do to some extent. It’s not that it’s your appearance will be the deciding factor on getting girls, but being handsome sure does help. Here are my best tips for looking great before meeting girls.

While I was at a party the other day, I stood there drinking my beer and casually observed a really gorgeous woman from a distance.  I wanted to see what guys did to try to pick her up. Like most hot girls at the party, she was surrounded by guys that were all trying to pick her up. Then out of the blue, one guy and said something to her that made her laugh so hard. And he only said one sentence!

What was it? Was it a pickup line?

I love to chat on forums and dating sites because when I’m there I have absolutely no problems approaching girls.  It’s actually really enjoyable for me to see how they react and behave to my different approaches. Online, I don’t have any shyness or fear and these days  Facebook and Myspace actually seem like a game for me. I like to see how long I can keep their attention. I think what helps me the most is the fact that I feel completely anonymous, so when something goes wrong, nobody can do or say anything bad about me. I can simply go on and approach another girl and not feel bad about the last one that didn’t work out.

Whenever I compliment a beautiful girl, it doesn’t seem to have a very good effect on her.

It’s as if she already knows what I’m going to say before I say it. She already knows she’s pretty and she’s used to having everyone remind of her of it. It feels as if she takes the compliment and adds it to a long list of previous heard compliments. I suppose that’s why she’s a little full of herself which puts her on a pedestal far beyond my reach.

My question is, if I’m going to be creating rapport and seducing attractive women, should I be complimenting her or not?

How can I make her feel flattered and at the same time have a real impact on her? I don’t want her to feel as if I’m just another guy complimenting her.