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I’m really excited to announce the re-opening of one of our sister sites, WayTooSocial. It’s our chance to jump into the more modern dating world, to get an active engagement from the community and to widen our reach in order to help more people. The first piece of content to be published on the newly redesigned site touches the theme of dating advice and explores what I would tell my 20 year old self if I could go back in time.
The question asks itself… how would that affect my life? Would I ignore the advice or follow it religiously? At the end of the day, the only useful advice is the one that you apply in your life. If you’re interested (and you should be, it’s damned good!) then read it here: http://www.waytoosocial.com/sociallifestyle/things-i-would-have-wanted-to-tell-my-20-year-old-self/ and make sure to let us know what you think in the comments!
Physical height? Strength? Power? Money? What really attracts women to men? Well there’s a hell of a list over on WayTooSocial about the Top Things That Attract Women.
And of course, there are a hundred points so there are contradictions but every point has it’s value.
You know that attraction is really something that we don’t control. Imagine this, a beautiful girl walks into the room… and you aren’t allowed to be attract to her. Does that work? Can you force yourself not to feel any attraction?
You might be able to resist talking to her… hey, you can even forcefully ignore her. One thing is sure though, we are wired to feel biological responses whenever we see attractive members of the opposite sex. Don’t fight it, it’s biology!
Here’s how you can use biology to your advantage, by reading that list!
Curious? Check it out after the jump.
As a dating coach, pretty much everywhere I go there are guys that are wondering how to get a girlfriend to embellish their lives. They want love, attraction, lust, someone to watch movies with and of course, someone to make love to. Unfortunately, the guys that say they need a girlfriend … well, most of the time, they are also the least likely guys to get one.
You can imagine a typical scenario where guys, huddled around a table, are discussing what attracts women. They’ll usually point out that power, money and looks are the key factors in attracting females. Although those factors might help, they certainly aren’t the only things and definitely not the most powerful ones. We’ll explore how women work and what really triggers attraction.
Cocky and funny is a concept that was originally introduced by David DeAngelo in one of his books, Double Your Dating. David noticed through trial and error that one of the most effective ways of sparking attraction early on in an interaction is to say something that is funny with a hint of cockyness. Although this is only one of the many techniques that he teaches, this is probably the most popular one simply because it’s easy and effective to do.
The definition of a demonstration of higher value, more commonly known through the acronym DHV is simply a statement that increases your social status relative to the people around you. Originally introduced by Mystery, Erik Von Markovich, who showed that demonstrating higher value increases your attractiveness. The more you are worth, the more desirable you are. Hhow can you go about demonstrating higher value? Well there are a few ways.
The definition of demonstration of lower value, or DLV for short is to do or say something that makes you less valuable in the eyes of the girl that you’re currently pursuing. This can be something that you say, but it is usually the result of a certain behavior. In most cases, the result of DLV is usually less attraction and it can be the cause of break-ups in certain cases. However there is an exception where DLV is actually beneficial and will increase attraction, we’ll cover this exception in this article.
For men, learning how to get a girl to like you can be one of the most rewarding experiences. Once you know what creates attraction in men and women, you can finally go out and search for your ideal woman. If you think you’ve already found a girl that you would like to know better, then read on because creating attraction isn’t all that hard once you understand the basics.
If you’re a guy and you don’t know how to flirt properly and effectively with women, then you’re seriously missing out on some of the joys that life has to offer. Flirting, the act of teasing and hinting interest in a person and having them reciprocate. It’s fun, easy and provides pretty good results if your objective is to attract women to you. So let’s get started.
Whenever I compliment a beautiful girl, it doesn’t seem to have a very good effect on her.
It’s as if she already knows what I’m going to say before I say it. She already knows she’s pretty and she’s used to having everyone remind of her of it. It feels as if she takes the compliment and adds it to a long list of previous heard compliments. I suppose that’s why she’s a little full of herself which puts her on a pedestal far beyond my reach.
My question is, if I’m going to be creating rapport and seducing attractive women, should I be complimenting her or not?
How can I make her feel flattered and at the same time have a real impact on her? I don’t want her to feel as if I’m just another guy complimenting her.